one month later

... and I'm finding it's hard to be sad when you are traveling through Eastern Washington wine country. I've stumbled across so much...

bike love

Remember this photo? Confession: I am listening to my sappy love songs playlist (highlights include the Cure, Peter Gabriel and...

that great big world

It is hard to be angry when this is happening across the table: Seriously: I don't know where these friends came from or what...

unsaid

Things I wish I could tell you but I won't because I also wish you would get colon cancer and die alone and friendless, or at least...

thank you

I don't know what the hell I've done in my life to deserve such good, kind, honest, funny, silly friends. You guys are the best:...

fighting the fight

After royally falling apart Friday night in an embarrassingly horrible way that involved crying uncontrollably on the steps of a...

how to heal

The past two days were the worst I've ever experienced.  The grief came like a tidal wave. I tried to be brave, but it...

all kinds of grief, all at once

When Erika came to visit me in Seattle, one thing she said was: "I wonder what kind of guy you'll date here." And then she told...

is it over yet?

So I'm anxiously waiting for the part when this is funny. P.S. I'm currently in Minneapolis, where it is so frigid that the...